<Why Do I Struggle to Let Go?>
- Even when I know it’s over, I still stay there inside.
I already know.
They don’t think of me anymore.
This relationship has left nothing but pain.
And yet, I still can’t let go.
It’s not that I miss the person—
I miss who I was with them,
the warmth of that moment,
the meaning I held inside it.
Letting go feels like erasing all of that by myself.
- What if attachment isn’t just a feeling—but a structure?
S types in MBTI—especially SF types—
tend to hold on once they’ve given their heart.
They find security in the familiar,
and give deep emotional meaning to people and places in the present.
So even when a relationship ends,
the feelings don’t easily fade.
One memory, one word, one photo
can bring back the desire to reconnect.
K-Saju views this kind of attachment
as a structural bond between Resource and Earth (to).
Resource stores and holds emotional experience.
Earth preserves what’s stable and known.
When both are strong,
past emotions don’t just linger—they become embedded.
And that structure pulls you back
more than new experiences can pull you forward.
- The memory has stopped—but the emotion still flows.
F types in MBTI don’t rush to move on.
They experience time through emotional flow,
so even when something’s “over,”
their heart may still be moving through it.
K-Saju interprets this gap
through Sewoon (세운: se-woon) and Daewoon (대운: dae-woon).
When Daewoon shifts, emotional structures begin to reconfigure—
offering moments to break free from the past.
In certain Sewoon years,
old feelings or patterns may resurface again.
It’s like being carriedby
a current you didn’t choose—
a wave of time that moves through you
before you’re ready to move on.
- Leftover emotions make you wonder—was it really the end?
SF types in MBTI remember people through feeling,
and carry relationships as lived experiences.
When a bond was deep,
they often look for the possibility of return
rather than accept disconnection.
K-Saju sees this as the interaction
of Resource and Companion energies.
Resource keeps memory alive.
Companion tries to reconnect through that memory.
As long as emotion remains,
you may keep wondering,
“Maybe it’s not truly over.”
This impulse is honest—
but it can become a quiet loop
that isolates you from the present.
- Sometimes the key is not to force it—but to wait for the shift.
Telling yourself to let go rarely works.
The heart doesn’t always obey logic.
That’s why the key is not to pull away harder,
but to notice when the flow begins to change.
K-Saju shows these turning point
sthrough Daewoon(대운: dae-woon) and Sewoon(세운: se-woon).
When Resource fades and
Output or Authority energies begin to rise,
it becomes easier to separate feeling from memory.
MBTI follows the rhythm of feeling.
K-Saju shows when the structure allows you to let go.
It’s not that your feelings disappear—
it’s that a structure forms
where letting go becomes possible.
And your emotions, at last, follow.
- If you’ve struggled to let go, maybe it’s because you loved deeply.
It’s not obsession.
It’s not weakness.
It’s the echo that only comes
from living something with your whole heart.
MBTI shows the kind of person who can carry that depth.
K-Saju reveals the moment when it can be released.
Not letting go isn’t failure.
Letting go becomes possible
when the structure shifts.
And when it does—
you’ll find that you’re finally able
to hold onto yourself again.
Tags: #MBTI #Saju #PersonalityType #EnergyCycle #KoreanAstrology #SelfAwareness #TimingNotType #사주 #MBTIvsSaju
