<Maybe I’m Not Just a Type—I'm a Flow>
- The More I Try to Define Myself, the Less I Seem to Know
When I was young, things felt simple.
If someone described my personality by type, I’d nod in agreement.
When I got test results, I’d think, “This is totally me.”
Hearing the explanations brought a sense of relief—“Yes, that’s exactly how I am.”
That’s how I started understanding and categorizing my tendencies.
But as time passed, I became more complex.
The descriptions that used to fit me perfectly no longer seemed to capture who I had become.
This isn’t a contradiction. It’s a flow.
Maybe I’m not a fixed identity—but a living structure that keeps evolving.
- Personality Isn’t a Box, But a Moving Center
MBTI was the starting point for understanding myself.
Whether I was an E or I, an F or T—those distinctions helped me recognize the direction of my energy, how I process emotions, and how I make decisions.
Especially in early relationships, career beginnings, and times of stress, that framework gave me a sense of clarity.
But over time, I started meeting parts of myself I didn’t know.
Emotions I hadn’t felt before. Instincts I didn’t recognize. Responses that surprised me.The old explanations could no longer contain the whole of me.
K-Saju starts with the structure you're born with—but interprets it as something fluid.
We are composed of the Five Elements – Wood, Fire, Earth, Metal, Water,
and the Ten Inner Forces – ten energies shaping our lives and relationships.
This internal structure is never fixed.
As time passes, the arrangement of energies shifts—
and in that shifting, a new version of me is formed.
- Every Tendency Moves Differently Over Time
MBTI helps us understand familiar response patterns.
It’s a helpful guide, especially when emotions are unclear or overwhelming.
K-Saju adds another layer: the element of time.
Even familiar tendencies can behave differently depending on when.
Daewoon (대운: dae-woon) marks the 10-Year Energy Flow,
and Sewoon (세운: se-woon) reflects the rhythm that shifts each year.
Some years, you may feel more emotionally sensitive.
Other years, you might act more boldly.
It’s not that your personality has changed—
your energy is simply moving through time.
- The Same Type Feels Different in Different Moments
MBTI offers valuable insight into how we express emotions and connect in relationships.
That perspective helped me understand how I relate to others.
K-Saju looks at relationships through the flow of energy.
When Companion energy rises, I want to be close to someone.
When Authority increases, I draw clearer boundaries.
With high Resource, I need time alone.
And when Wealth surges, conflict might arise.
Even with the same person, the relationship feels different depending on the energy we’re in.The same type doesn’t always feel the same.
- I’m Not Just a Type—I’m the One Moving Through Change
MBTI helps explain what kind of tendencies I have.
K-Saju shows when, how, and why those tendencies shift.
The two don’t cancel each other out.
Used together, they allow for a more dimensional understanding of self.
One shows structure. The other shows movement within it.
I didn’t arrive here by following a single pattern.
I arrived here by moving—through choices, through time, through responses.
- I Live With Both My Nature and My Flow
MBTI reveals the form of your tendencies.
K-Saju reveals how that form shifts with time.
They don’t erase each other.
The more you use them together, the deeper your understanding becomes.
That’s why I don’t choose just one.
I live by embracing both my nature—and my flow.
Personality is the starting point.
Timing is the direction.
Choice is what shapes who I am right now.
If you ask me who I am,
I may not answer with just one type.
But I can say this:
I’m someone who lives in flow.
And once I saw that, I stopped misunderstanding myself.
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